Jacob

I just love to watch how Jacob is with Tabitha. You can definitely tell that he loves her. For those who have been around him from the time Tabitha was born you know the story of Brenda. I hope his affection for her lasts forever, but I find it very touching and sweet to see how he is with her. He is never jealous of her. He shares his toys with her so freely. He is itching to share food with her. He'll do anything for me if it involves her. For instance... tonight I was cooking dinner. Tabitha likes to crawl into the kitchen and play with the dog food. All I had to do is call for Jake and say "come get Sissy". he comes in, picks her up under the arms and carries her from behind and gently sets her down in the living room. It didn't matter how many times I interrupted Dora.. he'd pause it.. come get her and watch his show again. I think I'll teach him how to make her a bottle and get her back to sleep at 3am....

During dinner I was holding her on the couch and he walked past her and said in the sweetest voice "Hey there Pretty Girl".

Every night after prayers Jake gives me and Tabitha hugs and kisses before he goes to sleep. He is always so gentle with her.

He is one amazing son and brother. I am truly grateful for him in my life. I hope that Tabitha will appreciate him one day.

Jacob is one smart cookie. We've had him at ACL since he was 20 months old and I have to say that it was the best move we could have made for him. He speaks so well. He has a very large vocabulary for a 3 1/2 year old. He counts to 15 in Spanish, He knows his shapes and colors. And right now he is taking swimming lessons. I spoke with his swim teacher today and she said that he is amazing in the water. I wasn't surprised. He is awesome at everything he tries.

One thing I would like to indulge if he wants to do it is the culinary arts. We love crab legs and will buy them when they are on sale at HEB. Jason and Jake can eat 1 1/2 lbs by themselves (usually Jake eats the most). Well, one day I was making crab salad with imitation crab meat and Jake asked Jason what it was. Jason responded that it was crab. Well, of course Jake wanted some. So Jason gave him a small piece.. Jake's response... "THAT'S not CRAB." What a pallete.

Integrity... Jake has a lot of integrity. When he gets in trouble at school (which I can count on one hand) The teachers don't have to tell me. Usually Jake will tell me on the way home. I would never have known.. But he tells on himself...

Funny... Jake thinks he's funny... and he's right. His teachers are always commenting on how much of a hoot he is and how he is a riot. I love his sense of humor and the very expressive faces he makes...

Music... He is my little songbird. He loves to sing and will often start singing at the weirdest times. He also loves for me to sing to him. He always asks me to sing to him while he brushes his teeth. Usually Old MacDonald and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and Lollipop. This is my fault because I had heard once that the proper amount of time to brush your teeth is the length of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star sung twice. So I started singing it to him to make sure he brushed long enough. He's graduated to non-diluted mouthwash and flossing by himself.

Birthday... I asked him today what kind of birthday party he wants this year... his response... Dora.

Jacob is very in touch with his feminine side. He loves to be primped and painted. and his favorite color is pink. I'll let him have his fun for 10 more years.. then we'll have to have a talk...

Growth... I can tell that he is growing up because in the last two weeks he has actually requested to go play in his room and watch his own tv. Oh, and he hasn't had a wet pull up in the morning in about a month, so we're going to try sleeping in underwear.. One night down...

I just love my little buggy. He brings joy and frustration to me all at the same time. I know that as he grows older he will stop being as helpful as he is right now, so I will embrace his willingness and desire to help and be held. He's growing so fast. It's scary to think how fast time is going by. I'll try not to blink too many times.

Love you Jakey.